Have you ever had those days where everything feels perfectly aligned? Where decisions feel right, interactions feel authentic, and you're operating at your highest frequency? And then there are those other days - where everything feels disconnected, even the simplest choices seem challenging, and you're completely out of sync with yourself.


Here's the truth that many of us miss: Your energy has a unique design, and when you're not working in alignment with it, life feels unnecessarily hard.

The Hidden Cost of Living Out of Alignment
Many of us go through life trying to adapt to how we think we "should" be operating. We push through fatigue because we think that's what productive people do. We make quick decisions because someone told us that's what confident people do. We say yes to every opportunity because we're told that's how successful people operate.

But what if your energy isn't designed to work that way?

You might think, "I'm already intuitive - I know how my energy works!" And yes, you probably have great instincts about what feels right or wrong. But there's a difference between having a general sense of your energy and truly understanding the specific patterns of how you're designed to operate. It's like having a car but not the owner's manual – you can drive it, but you might miss out on features that could make your journey much aligned, easier and more enjoyable.

When you're not aligned with your natural energy patterns, you might:

• Feel exhausted by interactions that should energize you
• Struggle to make decisions that honor your true self
• Find yourself overwhelmed by situations others seem to handle easily
• Experience recurring patterns of frustration in relationships and work
• Question why certain approaches that work for others don't work for you

Understanding Your Natural Design
Each of us has a unique energetic blueprint that influences how we:

• Process information and make decisions
• Interact with others and recharge our energy
• Share our gifts with the world
• Navigate relationships and communications
• Handle different types of environments and situations

When you understand these patterns, life shifts in beautiful ways:

• You recognize why certain situations drain you while others energize you
• You understand your natural rhythm for making decisions
• You learn how to honor your energy in relationships
• You discover your authentic way of interacting with the world
• You gain clarity on your innate gifts and how to share them
• You understand how to communicate effectively with different types of people

This knowledge applies to every area of your life – from personal relationships and career choices to how you recharge and how you share your gifts with the world.

Living in Alignment
Understanding your soul's design isn't just another piece of self-knowledge - it's the foundation that helps you navigate every aspect of your life with more ease and authenticity. When you're aligned with your natural energy, life flows more smoothly, decisions become clearer, and you can show up as your truest self in all that you do.

Introducing the Soul Exploration Report
​I'm excited to share that I'm now offering Soul Exploration Reports. It's a detailed map of your soul's natural design, revealing:

• Your unique energy type and how it naturally flows
• Your authentic personality and interaction style
• Your soul-level gifts and inherent traits
• Your natural decision-making patterns
• How to work with your energy instead of against it
• Basic guidance for communicating with different energy types

Think of it as your soul's owner's manual – the guide you should have received at birth!

Ready to Discover Your Soul Design?
​If you're ready to understand how you're naturally designed to thrive, click below to get your personalized Soul Exploration Report in 3-5 business days.

P.S. This is similar to the foundational insight work I share in the first session of my $425 SoulfulSync, but in an accessible report format that you can review at your own pace.

​Watching a candle flicker this morning during my meditation, it dawned on me that a flame on a candle can keep lighting other candles without diminishing anything from itself.

It got me thinking about business. 

Sharing content. Getting on discovery calls. Going on a coffee date so someone can 'pick your brain.'

The big-time marketing gurus out there tell you to be careful what you share. Leave them hungry, so they'll come back for more and then charge them your 'premium' pricing.

It's made people like me and my clients hesitant and sometimes even afraid to give away our knowledge because we have taken in the limiting beliefs that it will diminish something we have. Or that prospects will gobble it up for free and will not hire us.

But what I realized this morning is that we've also been taught, especially in the religious and spiritual arena, that giving doesn't diminish our light. 

If anything, it makes us better. It makes us feel good to help someone, and it shows our true intentions, which are unselfish, loving and kind. 

I share this with you because I finally understand that the knowledge and experience that we have amassed in our lifetime has been given to us to share, not squander.

Sharing helps us stay true to who we really are deep down inside. It helps us grow, allowing us to shine, enabling us to share our light and ignite others without fear of being diminished.

Given this insight, I'm wondering what you could do differently to enable you to share your light so you can ignite others?

Today is my birthday, and I thought what would be something I could give myself that is valuable and might help me move forward?

I realized that it would be an awesome feat to be able to go back to visit my younger self and impart some advice if I ever had the opportunity. Here is what I have complied that I would share if given the chance...​

• Don’t compare yourself to others.
• Be YOU. Everyone else is taken. Revel in that and shine your damn light off!
• You are not alone. You have support even when you feel like there's no one but you that can help. Ask for help, and it will come to you, be it a person in your life or your spiritual support team that is always with you.
• You can get out of your comfort zone and prove things to yourself when you want, but you have nothing you need to prove to yourself or anyone else for that matter.
• Don’t be afraid. The moment you give in to fear, it has you in its hooks forever!
• Don’t judge a book by its cover. Give people a chance.
• Turn the TV off and read a book or get outside and explore.
• It’s okay to say no. It’s healthy to have boundaries.
• Exercise more. It catches up with you later, and you’ll wish you had pushed yourself when you had the chance.
• Listen more than you talk. Don’t interrupt.
• Listen to your intuition. Do what's right and correct for you.
• Be patient. There's a time and a place for everything. Timing is divine!
• Don't squander your insights on those that won't appreciate them. If it doesn't feel right, don't share! There are those that are going to be in your life that are the correct ones that speak to when the timing is right.
• Study psychology and anything else you can get your hands on to understand yourself and others.
• Learn about being emotionally intelligent where you see a situation from all perspectives before you respond. And it’s okay to walk away and say nothing.
• Don’t take things so personally. Most times, it’s their problem, not yours. Don’t take that on yourself.
• Money isn’t as fun as it seems. It’s necessary, but it doesn’t solve your problems.
• You will always have problems. Learn to love them and find the silver linings.
• Failure doesn’t exist. You win or learn.
• Someone doesn’t have to like you. It’s alright not to be someone’s cup of tea.
• Nothing is wrong with you. You are not broken or defective.
• You don’t need to have it all figured out.
• You are not alone. It’s okay to ask for help or support.
• Respect people‘s opinions, even if you disagree with them. 
• Don’t make someone else the center of your universe. You are the most important person in your life. 
• Investing in your happiness pays the highest dividends.
• You can be anything. Don’t underestimate yourself or play small.
• Don’t listen to those that put you down or make fun of you. They are struggling just as much as you are to fit in and belong.

What would you tell your younger self if you had the chance to go back and speak with them?