Today is my birthday, and I thought what would be something I could give myself that is valuable and might help me move forward?

I realized that it would be an awesome feat to be able to go back to visit my younger self and impart some advice if I ever had the opportunity. Here is what I have complied that I would share if given the chance...​

• Don’t compare yourself to others.
• Be YOU. Everyone else is taken. Revel in that and shine your damn light off!
• You are not alone. You have support even when you feel like there's no one but you that can help. Ask for help, and it will come to you, be it a person in your life or your spiritual support team that is always with you.
• You can get out of your comfort zone and prove things to yourself when you want, but you have nothing you need to prove to yourself or anyone else for that matter.
• Don’t be afraid. The moment you give in to fear, it has you in its hooks forever!
• Don’t judge a book by its cover. Give people a chance.
• Turn the TV off and read a book or get outside and explore.
• It’s okay to say no. It’s healthy to have boundaries.
• Exercise more. It catches up with you later, and you’ll wish you had pushed yourself when you had the chance.
• Listen more than you talk. Don’t interrupt.
• Listen to your intuition. Do what's right and correct for you.
• Be patient. There's a time and a place for everything. Timing is divine!
• Don't squander your insights on those that won't appreciate them. If it doesn't feel right, don't share! There are those that are going to be in your life that are the correct ones that speak to when the timing is right.
• Study psychology and anything else you can get your hands on to understand yourself and others.
• Learn about being emotionally intelligent where you see a situation from all perspectives before you respond. And it’s okay to walk away and say nothing.
• Don’t take things so personally. Most times, it’s their problem, not yours. Don’t take that on yourself.
• Money isn’t as fun as it seems. It’s necessary, but it doesn’t solve your problems.
• You will always have problems. Learn to love them and find the silver linings.
• Failure doesn’t exist. You win or learn.
• Someone doesn’t have to like you. It’s alright not to be someone’s cup of tea.
• Nothing is wrong with you. You are not broken or defective.
• You don’t need to have it all figured out.
• You are not alone. It’s okay to ask for help or support.
• Respect people‘s opinions, even if you disagree with them. 
• Don’t make someone else the center of your universe. You are the most important person in your life. 
• Investing in your happiness pays the highest dividends.
• You can be anything. Don’t underestimate yourself or play small.
• Don’t listen to those that put you down or make fun of you. They are struggling just as much as you are to fit in and belong.

What would you tell your younger self if you had the chance to go back and speak with them?

Do you ever find yourself dreaming and setting goals, only to find that things don't end up as you expected?

Have you tried manifesting and found that you are left disappointed because something didn't happen as you envisioned it?

Dreams are the magic of possibility. They call for a leap of faith – trusting in yourself AND something bigger.

Expectations are the emotional investment and criteria we set up around our dream or goal so that things come out perfect and manifest as we intended.

But perfection is an illusion. Control is a limitation and pretty much an illusion too.

I have shared about how I use the lunar phases to assist the direction of your life and spiritual transformation business.

On June 10, 2021, we have a new moon in Gemini with a ring of fire solar eclipse (not to mention there’s a Saturn return, Mercury in retrograde, and a whole lot more cosmic fun thrown into the mix).

The new moon is about new beginnings. It is a perfect time to set your intentions. A solar eclipse brings an end to a six-month cycle and it begins another six-month cycle. So it’s about death and rebirth and adds fuel to our intention setting.

Gemini is a sign of choice and it's all about communication, education, thinking, and learning. This energy helps us weigh our options and see things from a different perspective.